Ideally, we want to turn to people who know us well, have our best interest at heart, and tend to share their opinions in a respectful way. Nobody likes dealing with unsolicited advice or over-sharing. Do you have trouble deciding what to eat when you go out to restaurants? Believe it or not, thinking someone is out of your league can also be a kind of pickiness. We each have a non-negotiable mental list of the things we look for in a partner or relationship. Create Account Create an account so you'll have a place to store your favorites.
If so, your pickiness when it comes to dating might have less to do with having high standards in terms of potential partners and more to do with an overall difficulty making decisions or knowing what you want.
Are You Too Picky When It Comes to Dating?
If so, your pickiness when it comes to dating might have less to do with having high standards in terms of potential partners and more to do with an overall difficulty making decisions or knowing what you want. Being a little more flexible and open minded can hopefully make the dating process a little more enjoyable—and help us be ready when the right person appears. The problem is that this can make us turn down potential partners when things might actually have worked out really well. We each have our own pattern that we fall into when it comes to dating. What about bigger life decisions, like what to do for work or where you want to live? Log In Good to see you again. To take some of the pressure off, it can be helpful to think about all the other things we can get out of dating— a fun night out, a new friend or connection, brushing up on our dating skills, and yes, even trying a new coffee shop, restaurant, or bar.