Likewise don't get into a hot tub together or plan to give your date a massage as a birthday treat. Telling them that sex is not included will show you if he is in this for you as a soul, a person with so much to share beyond her body. The key is being conscious and setting up boundaries. Of course, in trying to do so, you take a risk. December 1, at 7: I personally believe that anything more than kissing especially passionate kissing will get you into trouble. While penetrative sex was off the table, there was a great deal of grey area in terms of whether other sex acts were considered OK.
Group members had an elaborate network of accountability partners to help them resist temptations.
The 3 Levels of Sexual Abstinence
If not, my highest prayer request is for God to keep me filled with His peace within me till He brings home to heaven. Just wondering — is this site directed only at women? I think its also important to consider purity in the other aspects of life. June 17, at 8: It was so much easier and left my brain more free to focus on more important things.